Links
FEAP
A link to the finite element program developed and maintained by Professor Bob Taylor at UC Berkeley.
GMSH
GMSH is a three-dimensional finite element mesh generator available for Linux, PC, and Mac platforms.
iMechanica
Yes, even the applied mechanics community has entered the blogosphere. Go to this page to read Professor Dolbow's post on the eXtended Finite Element Method (X-FEM).